When your family, finances, and future are all in flux at once, you need steady, experienced legal support. Atkinson & Kelsey, P.A. focuses exclusively on divorce and family law in New Mexico, and we have done so for more than four decades. As the first and oldest law firm in the state dedicated solely to this practice area, we bring a depth of knowledge and a disciplined, thoughtful approach to every case we handle.
We begin by listening. Your goals, your concerns, and your priorities shape the strategy we build together. Family law matters can carry strong emotions, but effective advocacy comes from clear thinking, careful preparation, and a firm grasp of the law. We approach each case calmly and professionally while remaining focused on achieving meaningful, long-term results for you.
Common family law matters we handle include:
- Divorce: Contested and uncontested cases tailored to your situation
- Child custody and parenting time: Plans that prioritize your child’s well-being
- Child support: Establishment, modification, and enforcement
- Spousal support: Temporary and longer-term financial arrangements
- Property and debt division: Identifying and allocating marital assets
- Domestic violence matters: Orders of protection and urgent legal support
- Paternity and parentage: Establishing rights and responsibilities
- Prenuptial and postnuptial agreements: Planning for the future
- Modifications and enforcement: Adjusting or upholding existing court orders
- Grandparents’ rights: Guidance in limited, specific circumstances
Our attorneys are widely respected for their analytical strength in complex divorce litigation, custody disputes, and high-value asset division. We also contribute to the development of New Mexico family law by writing and teaching on the subject.
Call us at 505-883-3070 to arrange a comprehensive initial consultation. Our family law firm takes the time to understand your situation and provides clear, actionable legal representation from the start.
How We Help in Family Law Matters
Family law touches nearly every part of your life, from your relationships to your financial security. Our role is to help you move forward with clarity and confidence. We personalize every strategy to your goals while keeping your long-term stability in focus.
Types of matters we handle for our family law clients:
- Divorce
- Custody and Parenting Time
- Child Support
- Spousal Support
- Property and Debt
- Domestic Violence Orders
- Paternity
- Prenup/Postnup
- Modifications and Enforcement
- Grandparents’ Rights
Family Law Services We Offer
Divorce (Contested & Uncontested)
In an uncontested divorce, both parties agree on key issues, such as property division, custody, and support. These cases tend to move more efficiently. Contested divorces involve disputes that require negotiation, mediation, or court intervention.
Timelines vary depending on the complexity of the case and the willingness of both parties to reach an agreement. We guide you through every phase, from filing to final resolution, while working to protect your interests and reduce unnecessary conflict.
Start by gathering financial documents and considering your priorities for life after divorce.
Child Custody and Time Sharing
Custody decisions are based on the best interests of the child. Courts consider factors such as stability, parental involvement, and the child’s needs. Parenting plans outline both decision-making authority and time-sharing arrangements.
We help develop clear, practical parenting plans that support your child’s well-being while protecting your relationship with them. Whether you are negotiating or litigating child custody disputes, we keep the focus on the well-being of your child, so we consider a realistic schedule that supports your child’s routine and your availability.
Child Support
Child support is typically calculated using state guidelines that consider income, parenting time, and the child’s needs. Support orders can be modified when circumstances change and enforced when obligations are not met. Our New Mexico legal group assists with establishing fair support arrangements, seeking adjustments when appropriate, and ensuring compliance with court orders.
You can start by compiling income records and any existing support documentation.
Spousal Support (Alimony)
Spousal support may be awarded on a temporary or longer-term basis. Courts look at factors such as income, earning capacity, and the length of the marriage. Our New Mexico divorce and family law team evaluates your situation carefully to advocate for a fair outcome, whether you are seeking support or responding to a request, so we review your monthly expenses and financial needs moving forward.
Property & Debt Division
New Mexico follows community property principles, meaning that most assets and debts acquired during the marriage are subject to property division. This process can become complex when high-value or mixed assets are involved. We work to identify, value, and divide property in a way that aligns with your goals and protects your financial future. We begin by listing all assets and debts, including your accounts, real estate, and liabilities.
Domestic Violence & Orders of Protection
Safety is always the priority. If you are facing domestic violence, legal protections may be available immediately. Orders of protection can provide critical safeguards for you and your family. We respond quickly in these situations and guide you through the legal process with care and urgency.
Reach out for help as soon as possible to understand your options and secure protection.
Paternity & Parentage
Establishing paternity creates legal rights and responsibilities, including custody and support. This process can be essential for both parents and children. We assist with establishing or challenging parentage and ensuring that all related issues are addressed appropriately.
Prenuptial & Postnuptial Agreements
These agreements allow couples to define financial expectations and responsibilities. They can address property division, support, and other matters. We help draft prenuptial-postnuptial-agreements/&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1781273243240640&usg=AOvVaw2EG0GRhVqVYYpxx2tWzdhj">prenup and postnup agreements in New Mexico that are clear, enforceable, and aligned with your intentions. We consider your financial goals and what you want to protect or clarify.
Modifications & Enforcement
When circumstances shift, court orders may need to be updated. If an existing order is not being followed, enforcement may be necessary. We help you pursue modifications related to custody, support, relocation, or any other family law matter and take action to ensure compliance.
Grandparents’ Rights
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What to Expect in a New Mexico Family Law Case
Understanding the process can make a challenging situation feel more manageable. While every case is different, most follow a similar path:
- Consultation and case goals: We meet with you to understand your situation, answer questions, and define your objectives.
- Immediate concerns: If needed, we address urgent issues such as temporary orders, parenting schedules, or safety measures.
- Financial disclosures and documentation: Both parties exchange information about income, assets, and debts to create a clear financial picture.
- Parenting plan proposals: When children are involved, we develop and negotiate a parenting plan that reflects their best interests.
- Negotiation and mediation: Many cases are resolved through structured discussions aimed at reaching agreement without trial.
- Court filings and hearings: When necessary, we file motions and present arguments to the court on specific issues.
- Trial: If a resolution cannot be reached, the case proceeds to trial, where a judge makes the final decisions.
- Final orders and next steps: Once the case concludes, we help you understand and implement the court’s orders, including any future modifications or enforcement actions.
Throughout the divorce process, we stay focused on preparation, clear communication, and a strategy aligned with your goals.
Why Clients Choose Atkinson & Kelsey
Our firm has built a reputation over decades by focusing exclusively on family law and delivering results grounded in careful analysis and preparation.
We bring a depth of experience that comes from handling a wide range of cases, including complex financial matters and sensitive custody disputes. Our attorneys contribute to the field by writing and teaching on New Mexico family law, and we remain actively engaged in its development.
We also believe that how a case is handled matters. We approach every case with professionalism and respect while remaining firmly committed to protecting your family’s future.
What sets our approach apart:
- Experience and focus: We have decades of exclusive practice in New Mexico family law
- Clear communication: We keep you informed and involved at every stage
- Strategic preparation: Every case is approached with careful planning and attention to detail
- Respectful advocacy: We remain steady and objective in emotionally charged situations
Client-centered commitments:
- We work with you to define a focused strategy early in your case
- You stay informed about progress and next steps
- We prepare every case as if it may go to trial
Frequently Asked Questions
How long does a divorce take in New Mexico?
The timeline varies. Uncontested divorces may resolve more quickly, while contested cases can take several months or longer, depending on complexity and court schedules.
How is child custody decided?
Courts base custody decisions on the best interests of the child, considering factors such as stability, parental involvement, and the child’s needs.
Can custody or child support be modified after the order?
Yes. Modifications are possible in family law civil litigation when there has been a significant change in circumstances.
How is child support calculated?
Child support is generally determined using state guidelines that account for income, parenting time, and other relevant factors.
Do I have to go to court?
Many cases are resolved through negotiation or mediation. Court involvement is necessary when agreements cannot be reached.
What is mediation, and when is it helpful?
Mediation is a structured process where a neutral third party helps both sides reach an agreement. It can be effective in reducing conflict and resolving disputes efficiently.
What should I bring to my first consultation?
Bring any relevant documents, such as financial records, court orders, and a list of questions or concerns.
What if the other party violates a court order?
Legal solutions and remedies are available to enforce court orders. We can help you take appropriate action.
Can a parent relocate with a child?
Relocation typically requires court approval or agreement between the parties, especially when it affects custody arrangements.
What if there are domestic violence concerns?
Safety is the priority. Legal protections may be available immediately. Contact us as soon as possible to discuss your options.
A Client-Centered, Ethical Approach You Can Trust
At Atkinson & Kelsey, P.A., our commitment begins with you. Our attorneys are recognized leaders in New Mexico family law, contributing to the field by writing authoritative resources, such as the New Mexico Divorce Manual, and publishing articles in respected legal journals.
We also present at the State Bar Convention and seminars across the state, helping fellow attorneys stay informed on evolving domestic relations law. This ongoing involvement keeps us at the forefront of family law practice in New Mexico.
Our dedication to the highest ethical principles earned us the Ethics in Business Award from the Samaritan Counseling Center, making us the first law firm to receive this recognition.
We represent both high-net-worth and middle-class clients throughout New Mexico, including Albuquerque and surrounding communities. Our statewide reach allows us to assist individuals and families facing a wide range of legal challenges.
Choose an Experienced Family Law Attorney in New Mexico Today
Your situation deserves careful attention and a clear plan. At Atkinson & Kelsey, P.A., we are ready to listen, guide, and advocate for you with professionalism and purpose.
Here is what happens next: we begin with a detailed intake, followed by a comprehensive consultation. From there, we develop a strategy personalized to your needs and begin moving your case forward with dedication and care.
Unlike many other law firms, where free consultations last just a few minutes, we offer an in-depth consultation that typically lasts an hour or more for a flat fee of $300. When we conclude, you will be in a stronger position to choose your best legal options.
Call our law offices today at 505-883-3070 or contact us online to schedule your consultation.